Ask for help. If you are tired and frustrated with the job of parenting, ask for advice from the senior members in the family. After all, they’re better experienced than you are and will be most willing to share their experiences.
Spend more time. What kids love the most is spending time with their mama. Just be with your children as much as you can to motivate them.
Spare the rod. Spanking isn’t the right way to disciplining. Exercise self-control. Instead of spanking, explain to your kids what they’ve done wrong and how they can rectify it.
Praise your child. Criticising your kids in the presence of other kids lowers their morale to a great extent. Tell them very gently what you disapprove of in them and let them make good sense of it.
Enjoy being a mother. Motherhood is the best experience of your life. Make the most of it. It’s all right 
if sometimes you fall short of expectations. No one is perfect. Enjoy the moment. Live in it.
Stop being right. Being better parent is not about being right but doing the right thing. And at the right time.
