Demi Moore has spoken candidly about her ex-husband Bruce Willis’ battle with frontotemporal dementia, offering rare insight into how the Hollywood legend’s personality has shifted since his diagnosis. Speaking during a recent appearance on Oprah Winfrey’s podcast, the actress shared her perspective not only as a former spouse but also as someone who continues to stand alongside his family during a painful chapter.

Moore, who was married to Willis from 1987 to 2000 and shares three daughters with him, described how the actor’s once vibrant and commanding energy has given way to new traits. “It’s difficult. It’s hard to see somebody who was so vibrant and strong and so directed shift into this other part of themselves,” she explained.

She went on to highlight how crucial it is to meet a loved one with dementia where they are, rather than clinging to who they used to be. “When you do that, there is an incredible sweetness, something soft and tender and loving,” Moore said, noting that moments of presence can bring joy even in the midst of loss.