Ramadan and Worship for Mothers of Young Children
- 14 Feb - 20 Feb, 2026
Silence is usually a symbol of peace, but the silence prevailing in our homes today is a precursor to a horrific tragedy. In the name of our busy schedules and convenience, we have handed over our precious children to a 'Digital Nanny' – a soulless robot that is robbing them of their dreams and the primal joy of physical touch. When a mother replaces a lullaby with a smartphone, and a father turns on a screen instead of telling a story, the child is severed from the natural stages of upbringing and imprisoned in a digital enclosure where algorithms rule instead of emotions. The question is: are we raising our children, or are we making them captives of a digital mirage? This is not just the magic of a screen; it is an obstruction of the journey from 'fingertips to the brain,' a fact proven by modern experiments in neuroscience.
Science tells us that the development of the human brain is directly linked to 'Touch.' When a child holds a solid wooden block, feels sand sliding through their fingers, or kneads clay into shapes, the nerve endings in their fingertips send vital signals to the parts of the brain that foster "Neuroplasticity." Swiping on a screen is merely a mechanical act, whereas analog play is a sensory experience that transforms a child from a 'consumer' into a 'creator.' When we hand over a tablet to a child out of fear of their 'boredom,' we are actually stealing that creative moment where their brain seeks new ways to fill the void. This lack of 'patience and resilience' eventually creates a deep emotional vacuum in the adolescent’s personality.
The tragedy takes a dark and terrifying turn when this child, raised by a 'Digital Nanny,' enters the threshold of adulthood. Having never learned to rebuild a fallen sandcastle – having never learned resilience – they shy away from the complexities and responsibilities of real human relationships. They seek refuge in an artificial world where they face no demands for sacrifice. This growing emotional isolation and dangerous dependence on machines have now sounded a global alarm.
Regarding this grave situation, Pope Leo, the spiritual leader of Christians, issued an emergency appeal on "World Communications Day." He warned with full force: "Men should not establish emotional attachments with AI chatbots or digital girlfriends, otherwise, they may face painful consequences." This warning is a testament to the bitter reality that when humans find fewer listeners and empathizers in the real world, they begin to seek solace in artificial voices that possess neither soul nor moral consciousness. Artificial Intelligence is alienating us from human feelings because real relationships demand patience, tolerance, and the ability to maintain love despite disagreements, whereas a machine demands no rights and never embarrasses you by disagreeing.
Islam regards a human being not merely as a biological entity but as a 'social and spiritual being' who finds fulfillment only in real relationships, kinship, and selflessness. Reminding us of human dignity, the Holy Quran states: "And We have certainly honored the children of Adam" (Al-Isra: 70). This human dignity demands that we do not surrender our attention and emotional world to lifeless machines that can neither feel our pain nor provide moral guidance in our decisions. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) defined a believer by saying: “A believer is one who is sociable and with whom people feel sociable” (Musnad Ahmad). Today, the heart-to-heart conversations that daughters once had with mothers, and the advice sons sought from fathers, are happening on the cold screens of ChatGPT. Can ten dry options provided by a screen ever compete with the yearning prayer of a mother that can move the very Throne of God?
The truth is that a Digital Nanny can silence a child, but it cannot make them 'human.' If we are giving human time to machines today, it is a great injustice to humanity. We must pull our children out of this artificial enclosure and reintroduce them to the touch of soil, the scent of books, and the closeness of loved ones. Remember! A child who learns to connect with the soil today will become a strong, flourishing tree rooted in their identity tomorrow. Leaving upbringing to a smartphone is like keeping a plant in bulb light instead of sunlight; the plant might stay green, but it will never become a fruitful, towering tree under whose shade humanity finds shelter. Let us return to the touch of the earth before digital noise permanently freezes our emotions. Let us restart the journey of upbringing where life breathes in its original colors and where the touch of the soil makes us feel 'human' once again.
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